At A Critical Point

They might be family, but don’t just show up at their door unannounced.

* You may want to create some very specific questions. Take a look at the information you have accumulated. Are there any topics that you would like to discuss with certain family members? Relating one of your memories can lead to reminiscing and interesting anecdotes.

* Remember that each family member will have a version of events from their own perspective. Resist the urge to correct them. This is their interpretation. We are each individuals with our own unique vantage point to the world. If you want to enjoy the study of family history it is best if you realise there is no right or wrong to these viewpoints. Do not expect others to share identical memories with you.

* Bring photos and other memorabilia to share. These can help to spark memories.

* Ask one question at a time.
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